Living with chronic kidney disease on dialysis, Niketa Khaire faced immense challenges as a mother, caregiver, and professional. Through hospital visits and treatment, she discovered that strength is quiet, enduring, and transformative. Her work as an Agile and Performance Coach also deepened, informed by her lived experiences. She now inspires others by showing that a full life is still possible, even amidst chronic illness.
It is not that I never imagined that life would take me through so many layers of pain, strength, and discovery all at once. I am a mother of twin daughters, one of whom has special needs. I am a caregiver to my aging mother. I am also a woman living with chronic kidney disease, on dialysis, and yet, I can honestly say, I have never felt more alive, more grounded, or more grateful for the woman I have become.
For a long time, I tried to balance everything the world expected of me: being a present mother, a devoted daughter, and a strong professional. I have worked for over two decades as an Agile Coach, Scrum Master, and Performance Coach — helping people navigate change, build resilience, and unlock potential. Ironically, it was my own life that became the ultimate masterclass in resilience.
When I was first diagnosed with CKD, I thought my story was over. The endless hospital visits, needles, and exhaustion seemed to define my world. But slowly, I began to realize that dialysis was not a sentence;it was an awakening. It forced me to pause, to listen to my body, to let go of control, and to trust life in ways I never had before. Each session became a moment of reflection, a reminder that my strength wasnot in what I could do, but in how I could be.
Motherhood deepened that strength. Raising twins alone, one with special needs, while undergoing treatment, pushed me to confront fear head-on.
| There were days I cried, days I fought with myself, and days I simply chose to breathe and keep moving. | Somewhere between those moments, I found courage — not the loud, heroic kind, but the quiet, enduring kind that whispers: “Keep going. You are not done yet.” |
Professionally, I have continued to coach and lead teams, even from the dialysis chair. My clients often tell me my words carry a deeper calm now — a kind of knowing that comes only when you have faced life up close. My illness did not shrink my world; it expanded it. It gave me empathy that no certification could teach, and a clarity that transformed how I view success. It is not about titles or timelines anymore. Itis about impact, connection, and grace.
Today, I choose to sparkle bright despite all odds, not because life is easy, but because I finally understand that pain and purpose can coexist. I move my body through dance workouts and strength training, not out of vanity, but to celebrate the gift of movement. I coach not just for performance, but for presence, helping others find balance even when life feels unpredictable.
If there is one message my journey has taught me, it is this: You do not have to wait for perfect circumstances to live a full life. You just have to decide that you are worthy of one, even in the midst of your storms.
I am a mother. I am a coach. I am a woman on dialysis.
And I am still becoming — stronger, softer, and more alive than ever before. e, get screened today. Early detection can save your kidneys and your life!
Disclaimer: The blog series is intended for informational purposes only and is not meant to endorse or promote any specific drug, product, or brand. Each individual’s experience is unique and should not be construed as medical advice or a guarantee of similar results for others. Always consult a qualified healthcare professional before making any decisions regarding your health and well-being.
